(not my image, from ohh dear wholesale)
Online dating is a minefield. Dudes think it’s totally acceptable to ask a perfect stranger about their sexual proclivities. “Are you into anal?” is an opening line. And I find it completely unacceptable.
I don’t have “looking for hook-ups” on my profile. I am not a fucking washing machine! And while I have had a few mind-blowing one night stand sexual experiences, I just can’t do that anymore. I am not against a purely sexual relationship… with a man who I’ve met and trust and feel comfortable with. And that guy doesn’t ask if I’m into anal in our tinder chat!
What happened to common decency? Like, for real, where did it go? I’m no prude. Hello, this blog is pretty much proof of that. But why am I feeling like the odd one out who wants a man to actually show interest in me as a fellow human being first? Of course I’m looking for someone to fuck. But I want to feel a connection. I want to be able to talk to them, and not just about sex. I want to be seen as a complete person, not a series of holes to be used.
And I’m so tempted to reply to all those anal guys with “Yes! I love anal! Come over and I’ll bend you over and fuck you all night long!”